My wife and I are quite vanilla. I’ve tried to get us to explore more positions and variety, but she isn’t very interested. We don’t have sex very often and when we do it feels good even if it’s a little “boring”. We both usually organize and it’s all good. Even if it’s always in missionary position only.
Anyway, there have been a few times in the recent past that she has been on top and she hasn’t had an orgasm, but she tells me to go ahead and cum. That doesn’t happen often, but the last two times it has she’s asked if she can keep going. So my load is spent inside her and I’m starting to get soft. But then she starts to get really into it. Really moving and thrusting her hips. Much more than she ever has normally when we have sex. Then she has an intense orgasm!
I’ve asked her why she doesn’t do that while I’m really hard because it feels good while I’m soft, it would feel amazing while I’m hard. She just says she likes how it feels.
So it seems like she prefers the feeling of a spent soft cock inside of her.
Is that strange? Have you ever heard of this? Is it a kink or a thing? I’ve never heard of a woman being into that.
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Maybe it just feels good. Penetration, especially if the penis is very large, can be uncomfortable for some.
Could be a mix of your cum making her extra slippy and you being a bit softer. Everyone has there thing good she found hers
It cld be that you cumming in her turns her on … there’s something about a man climaxing that’s a huge turn on esp if your making noises and grunting when you cum we can feel your dick get hard and harder then softer that’s a turn on 😉
I do know there’s that “warming” thing where the dude puts it in and the chick is content to just have a dick inside her. But if your girl is riding you and moving all around on it, then I think it’s a different story.
I love it too!!! I’m not sure what it is but I think when it’s starting to get soft it hits just the right spot 😉🤷🏻♀️. But it feels amazing!! Some guys won’t let the girl keep going after so kudos to you 😁
Grinding is amazing. She can control the situation and your pubic bone probably feels amazing on her clit. I’ve had tons of intense orgasms with my Ex after he came in me, then I’d flip him over and just ride and grind. The slippery soft dick and feeling full while my clit is getting rubbed doing movements that feels good to me is the best! You’re a good one for letting her explore that!
Pushing Rope?
> We both usually **organize** and it’s all good.
You mean orgasm?
> So it seems like she prefers the feeling of a spent soft cock inside of her.
I think you’re forgetting the much simpler answer. Clit stim.
When your soft she can grind her clit into you.
I love it. But mainly cause a) more grinding is more clit stimulation. b) most nerve endings in the vagina are within the first 2 inches or so, so having the tip rubbing back and forth closer to the entrance is better.
And c) there’s also a power dynamic I really like about it. That ties into other kinks of mine (cnc, breeding, being dom), but I don’t consider enjoying him soft as its own kink personally.