I was talking to a prospective hookup and she (f 19) wanted me (also f 19) to degrade her/dominate her during sex, as well as use a fleshlight on her, but im having mixed feelings about it?
ive never tried to be dominant and i feel like id just make it super awkward by trying to act like that? but i also want her to like it and have a good time, so im just wondering how i should go about this? like should i rehearse what to say??? or should i just accept i might not be dominant and i shouldnt try to change that?
idk i just really want it to go well and she seems a bit insecure about hooking up with me so i really want to do a good job. any advice is much appreciated! ðŸ˜ðŸ«¶
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The mistake that so many people make when exploring how to become dominant is that they think they need to make drastic, massive changes in their attitude and actions. Thankfully this isn’t the case at all.
So what kinds of steps can you take to slowly become more dominant?
**Try initiating:** Kiss her when she’s not expecting it. Run your hand up and down her thigh to let her know what you’re thinking about. Take her by the hand and lead her somewhere private, then start undressing her. Push her down onto something. [Try some ‘of these positions](https://tpi02.wordpress.com/2022/09/30/starfish/) Gently bite her lip. Start with the easier things and you’ll quickly notice how easy & fun it is!