How to increase stamina?

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1. Don’t be shy about having a 4” penis — slightly below average but women’s vaginal canals are sensitive in the first few inches — so you can provide pleasure to them effectively— and it’s good that you can cum

   most men with very large erections > 8” are floppy and spongy. I’m a bit above average at 7” and occasionally ram a cervix which is very painful for the woman and hard for me to take shallow strokes when excited PIV —

   so 4” has quite a few advantages actually. It’s the whole erotic experience that makes women feel happy — penis size and time of PIV are not the main factors.

   You might try a bit if desensitizing lubricant inside a condom tip — to make your glans not feel things — leaving the woman feeling everything— but personally I enjoy cumming frequently so I never try ti delay

2. Find out what turns her on and do more of that. Does she love oral? Does she love it when you stroke her clip with your finger?

   Expand your version of sex away from being penis centric, and pay attention to her entire body.

3. So there are two things you can do:

   1. Change the idea that sex is a penis and a vagina. You have hands, the possibility of toys, a mouth, etc. There are many ways you can sexually please your partner even if you’ve ejaculated. Sex starts and ends when you want it to. It doesn’t end with ejaculation. Also not everyone wants a 30 minute marathon. Some women like a 5 minute quickie. So she might not be lying when she says she enjoys sex. Also the goal of sex is to have fun and connect. Not just to have an orgasm. If she enjoys sex, she enjoys it. There is no “end goal”
   2. You can practice masturbating, and holding your orgasm right on the edge. Learn how much stimulation is requires to push you to orgasm. This can help you better control your own pacing with sexual intercourse. You can slow down if you’re close to ejaculating. You can learn how to relax close to orgasm and delay it. Basically practice.