Advice

My partner ended our relationship because of our fighting. She has a hard time with accountability and is very rude/disrespectful when I’m talking about how I feel. She gets me upset and eventually it becomes a fight about respecting each other. We have a 2 1/2 year old daughter and been together for 4 years. It’s been 5 days and she doesn’t want to be with me. She says she is tired of forcing us to work and she even has a new interest. Idk if I should keep trying to convince her to stay and work on our relationship with me. We were just about to go to counseling. I know I’m truly fighting for my daughter and our family. I still love her but she has really broken my heart telling me she’s forcing us to be together and doesn’t feel in love with me. Do I try and win her back or let her move on since she has no intent to rekindle things.. I don’t want to be a plan B..