We’ve been talking for a while, haven’t had sex yet. We’re very comfortable with each other and had talks about how we masturbate. She said she doesn’t use a toy.
What happened was she recently moved into an apartment and I helped her move in. She had it in a box inside of a box, I opened it and saw it. I asked her what it was since she told me she doesn’t use toys and she said she got it recently after our talk and likes using it sometimes.
The toy was a lot bigger than me lol. So I don’t want her to be disappointed when we have sex. Any advice?
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dont worry about it, its a toy you are the real thing
Ignore what they say, size doesn’t matter always. It’s how you use your tool that matters. Unless it’s actually small you can easily make do. Don’t sell yourself short just because a piece of plastic is bigger than you… plenty of girls have those mega sized things and no human can get close yet they still f with humans? Is this weird? Yeah.
But you get my meaning
It’s just a toy.
“He who uses the dagger with the precision and skill of a scalpel, is a true master of his craft” -Me
I find it easier to use a bigger toy, get a grip on it, etc. Doesn’t necessarily mean I want it all the time or want the entire length inside me
Dildo’s can’t hug and caress, they can’t kiss or moan or whisper dirty words. Dildos won’t hold their partners until they fall asleep. Sex is much more than a dick going inside a vagina.
It’s not about the size of the boat, but the motion of the ocean. The toy isn’t a substitute for actual sex for most people, so don’t think she’ll enjoy the toy more than you or compare you to the toy.
Honestly it’s how you use it, the most sensitive parts (on average) are the clit, a and g spots, so assuming you are over three inches, you will work. Size is more for an erotic feeling of fullness and to stimulate other zones. My ex and I would use toys for double penetration for that extra full feel (and obviously a spot stimulation), but it wasn’t all the time, women, like us men, like a variety in the bedroom. It’s just different.