Guys im having a very frustrating problem when a girl wants to give me head,
as soon as she starts sucking me off, i get soft!!!! (Just had it happen again today with a girl im seeing)
I don’t understand whats wrong with me its so weird, im rock hard when i give a girl head, kissing, sex (most times) and any other kinky stuff but when a girl wants to give me head, i just get soft, it don’t even make sense man maybe in my head all im thinkin about is to stay hard, but when im trying to actually enjoy it i just dont feel anything and get soft 😕
Is there any1 else with this weird problem of mine or am i just broken?? It hurts even more when a girl says “why dyu go soft when i suck u off, am i ugly or girls say whats wrong with me, fuck man it hurts
This has been goin on for about 7 years now ever since i lost my v card at 15, i have slept with 20ish women, and only about 5 have attempted to suck my dick i either decline or girls dont attempt to suck me off, most the time the girl never initiates it so i never get it
HELP
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Same here. I say I just don’t like BJ’s. I’d rather have her jerk me off with a bit of tongue action than just full on BJ.
Some men don’t get off from head, its not a problem with you.
Maybe just think of head as a piece of foreplay you’re not interested in. I share some of your issue, I’m still trying but I’ve never cum from oral, they get tired after about 5 min, and can’t continue. For me, it just doesn’t compare to my penis in her vagina, not on the same planet, intensity/sensation wise. Other guys can cum in like 20 sec of head. Oh well.
Just diplomatically pull her head up when she’s trying to go down, and tell her you’re not into that, but you’re down to go down on her. Some girls may like that :). Oh, and yeah I’m rock hard with precum leakin when I go down on a girl, its so hot, so I understand what you’re saying, and we can both empathize with women that want to give head, bc giving oral is hot. Just doesn’t work for us, is all.
BTW, I consider the phrase “sucking me off” to mean getting a blow job and finishing, possible with her swallowing. Just sayin, I thought this was a different thing in your post at first.