I am 24m and has never had any sex until 2 weeks ago(due to religious reasons) , I was afraid that I will not last long the first time but to my surprise I wasn’t able to cum at all.
I have my issues with porn and musturbation for too long that I thought maybe I have the death grip but to my surprise when I tried to musturbate alone with the weakest grip and no porn I am able to cum in a minute,
my partner was also a virgin but we fixed that 😉 but until now she can’t tolerate my full penis inside her and keeps pushing me,
I am just 17 cm so average and until now all I managed to do with my partner is cum with handjobs that lasted 20 mins on average, I am not sure now what besides the death grip could I have that makes me not able to cum?
Any advice?
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An experience with vaginal sex where the man can’t cum isn’t all that unheard of. It’s most likely not any kind of permanent condition. There is a lot to be nervous about the first several times, and maybe even if you’re not aware of feeling nervous.
Speaking for myself, my religious upbringing DID have a lot to do with my nerves and overall fear that I was doing something wrong. That can absolutely have an effect. If it might be that I would be happy to try to talk some sense into you. 🙂 I have experience with this.
But also, if she’s experiencing discomfort, that’s going to have an impact on you too. FYI, if that only happens when you are in too deep, there are positions where that’s less of a problem than others (you’ll have to look up info on that). Also, of course you should be able to just not go all the way in for now.
But if it’s not only happening at full depth …. it’s likely enough that her vagina is in the process of getting used to things and it will turn out fine soon. If it doesn’t, the best move for her would be to go see the gynecologist and have a chat. Everyone deserves for sex to feel good. 🙂
Lastly, as for hand jobs, I usually don’t come from those either.