Firstly, I’m not asexual. I feel sexually attracted to my boyfriend, and have felt it with people before.
I am attracted to people of all genders, but primarily men. I need someone with a dick I think.Anyways, I’ve never felt any sort of pleasure from penitration- it’s not painful in the slightest, but it’s a mildly unpleasant “slamming” sensation inside me.
Additionally, if I was aroused beforehand, the moment a penis enters the chat I lose it a bit. I was giving my bf a hand job and could barely hold back gagging (don’t have this reaction during piv).
Also, it takes me 1-2 hours to cum on my own, and I can’t seem to with a partner. My clit just goes numb and loses all sensation during piv.
I might add, I’ve had 2 previous latter’s before my bf and it was realitively the same.
Advice?
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I know you say you need someone with a penis but it really does not sound like you are attracted to men lol
>I need someone with a dick I think.Anyways, I’ve never felt any sort of pleasure from penitration- it’s not painful in the slightest, but it’s a mildly unpleasant “slamming” sensation inside me.
Is it pleasurable if you are masturbating with a toy? And are you sure about your sexual preferences and sexuality? Ever explored?
>I was giving my bf a hand job and could barely hold back gagging (don’t have this reaction during piv).
Do you like sucking a dick when it doesn’t make you gag? And have you tried adjusting the depth while sucking one to avoid the gag?
>Also, it takes me 1-2 hours to cum on my own, and I can’t seem to with a partner. My clit just goes numb and loses all sensation during piv.
How are you doing it? Hands or vibrator?
Mmm, were the other partners the same sex style/roughly the same size as your current boyfriend? I know people say size isn’t everything, but there is a noticeable difference! And sex style is important also! I rarely ejaculate from penetration alone and didn’t think I would really ever, but then I had a sexual experience with someone else and did (twice). So maybe you two have different sexual styles? Or maybe it’s the D itself? Or maybe you’re into women more than men you just don’t know it yet? Women can get strap ons and you can still have penetration sex without an actual penis!!! Worth a shot ¯_(ツ)_/¯