I feel a bit like they are taking advantage of me and I dunno why. When we were friends in year 6- year 8 a lot of my friends asked me to hangout. I have no idea when it changed now it feels like no one wants to hangout with me. What am I doing wrong or is it them in the wrong? When we’re at school we chat laugh and have a normal friendship. The thing is when we aren’t at school and it’s the summer like now or at weekends they seem reluctant and always dodge and find an excuse
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I don’t think there is a friendship where both put effort in the same thing. Like it might not take effort for one to hang out, but for the other hanging out takes effort.
As for not wanting to hang out – they have other stuff they want to do. Not everyone is outgoing, some are homebodies and not having the need to go out is actually good for them, so they use the vacation to rest and not go out anywhere. Also they might have work over weekend and thus use their free time to just plop into the couch and relax.
It could be that you are friends with your friend just inside of school. As in, they are a school buddy and not a friend.
Try to befriend people outside of the school.