Where you guys like how I am at 17?

I have no social life, none of my friends ever text me first, im shy and my friends always say their busy whenever I ask them if they want to hangout. Is this normal? I feel like I should be out partying and having fun but seeming as no one wants to hangout with me its pretty easy to guess why I never get invited to parties. I feel like I’m wasting my teen years away! Im also a high functioning autistic