So me (20M) and my girlfriend (21F) are very lucky to have incredible sex, she usually cums very quickly which is great, I usually last anywhere between 5-15 minutes, but if I do cum, i have the ability to just keep going, my girlfriend cums normally about 2-4 times for everytime I cum, but recently, I have been cumming within 5 mins, normally we cum at a very similar time, if I cum before I always finish her off, she says she’s fine and satisfied but I wonder why all the sudden it’s changed, I’d like it personally if I could cum like I did a few weeks ago, this has been going on for about 4/5 days now, I hope it just passes but I don’t know, anyone got any advice, cheers!
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Bro, this might be the longest run-on-sentence I’ve seen in the wild LMAO
At first are you stressed more than usually? This is most probable cause of your problem. Check if something else changed lately. If this problem persist for more than 2 weeks, you should meet psychiatrist or sexologist
I would say your probably too excited. Maybe slow down a bit and add some foreplay. Maybe don’t overly focus on the act as its happening, have your mind slightly focus other things if you find yourself too excited. Especially in the moment, don’t get hung up on how good it feels as its happening. I would also plan your schedule based on intercourse, some people who plan on having sex during the evening may masturbate that morning. Which brings me my next point, masturbate enough to know your own body and test how long you can go before orgasm and try to delay. There are several methods out there, some people will switch position of lightly pinch the tip of the penis to delay some of the bloodflow. There is also a “fleshlight” a masturbating tool that they sell that trains you to delay climax. I don’t recommend any type of desensitization cream or spray. Maybe even a change of diet would help, when I was vegetarian I would go forever and ever. Meditation seems to help too. Last, maybe plenty of water and sleep.
You should do kegels (search on Google)
Bro is in a manic state! Confirmed. He didn’t take a single breath during that post
Too much excitement perhaps?
Have you had many partners? Maybe you two are just getting more comfortable in bed together. Thus easier to finish
Try focusing on something else I know it’s the obvious advice, after being intimate regularly it’s pretty common to start cumming fast. Other than that I’d recommend training or using certain products to help.