So when I was 15 me and her started talking but her parents didn’t want her dating till a few years but we tried our hardest to talk and see each other. After a while they had blocked my number so as life happened we both got partners mine (21F) and hers (21M). Her relationship being around 2 years long.
We live in the same area and have the same friend groups so we keep and touch and talk quite a bit. She texted me recently saving she never lost feelings and I feel the same way.
I’m really lost on what to do I’ve had my relationship for three and a half years. love the current girl l’m with as well and we’ve been through a lot of life together. I just kind of feel like they’re both cover ups to hide the pain we felt when we couldn’t talk? all people are friends.
TLDR My ex said she still has feelings as do I but we are both in long term relationships.
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I’d be hesitant to rely on those feelings from 4 years ago to make a decision today. A lot changes from 15 to 19.
Some questions — mostly to ask yourself:
Is there anyone else in the world you’d end your current relationship to be with?
Do you want to end it to be with your ex or are you uncertain about the future of the relationship anyway?
Do you think your ex is “the one” or are you just getting wrapped up in nostalgia?