Just started dating this guy, I care about him but I know I don’t love him. Usually I’m the one to catch feelings first and it’s super obvious to me and hits me like a ton of bricks when I look at the person. However with this guy I don’t have that feeling, it’s odd because usually by now I’m feeling some typa way. I’m taking this slow for once and I think it’s just different to me. I actually feel kinda distant, like I’m scared to move to fast and I’m also kinda scared to trust them. I don’t think that’s a good thing. Idk, what do you guys think
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Hi there. There is no formula to calculate that, and it also depends on each person. It sounds like you are going with one foot in and one foot out. If you are not going all in, you’ll unlikely develop deeper feelings anytime soon. If you are concerned about leading him on, you could opt to be transparent with him about it and talk it out.