I don’t want to get into the details of the relationship, I’ve already asked about it here in the past and your conclusions were clear. Decision has been taken and the pain is overwhelming, I just don’t know how can I deal with this, it’s a situation I never thought someone would have to go through: breaking up with someone you actually love. But I can’t go on anymore, I really can’t go on.
How do you mentally deal with a situation like this? I really don’t know how to mentally prepare me for what I will have to go through
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first of all, therapy is always a good thing to do. second, try to change your routine, go to the gym, try new hobbies, avoid the things that you did with him. learn about yourself
You fiercely go on a pursuit of finding yourself and learning to love yourself more than anyone or anything outside of yourself. At least value yourself just as highly as you do those you come to care about. I suggest a book called: **Women who love too much by Robin Norwood.** You don’t deserve abuse. Love is a feeling, the person you love should be committed to your mental and physical well-being. It’s okay to feel sad that wasn’t the case here because this person is incapable of this but still understand that you NEED to protect yourself. Because you are worthy and valuable. You should be treated as such, especially by someone declaring they love you. Wish him well and choose yourself.