I’m 19M, have a little experience with women sexually at clubs, parties etc but I’ve never experienced one trying to land me, until now – so i’m just coming here to wonder if this girl is into me. So what happened, is that we started a study course a few days ago, and every half an hour or so if i glance over, 1 in 3 times i catch her looking at me. Today i made the first “move” (not really a move, just testing the waters), and I had all 5 of the group add me on snapchat so i could start a groupchat for the class and homework etc. After this, about 5 minutes later, she had follow requested me on instagram, clearly took the initiative of searching up my name she saw on sc into instagram. Is this her making a move, or am i reading into it? i don’t want to misread the situation.
TLDR: I am not great at reading people, want to know if I’m in, and what my response should be.
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If you like her, or even just want to get to know her more, invite her to some sort of setting where you can talk about more personal topics. Casual settings could be getting lunch or coffee somewhere, or doing an activity together that you’d already discussed interest in before.
In a more personal setting, you not only get to form a closer personal connection, you can also more accurately gauge each other’s feelings (and nonverbal cues, like eye contact), and feel more confident in making moves like closing the distance between you, making physical contact more often, or holding hands.
And if you find out from your meeting that she’s not into you, or you’re into her, you still have a nice outing having fun with a friend who you get to talk more with. Win-win.