My GF and I have been together for 5 years, and we are both of each others first relationship. Our relationship has been great for the most part but put sex lately has been really boring. She’s happy with our sex but I just don’t really get much from it anymore.
She wants to help but I just don’t really know what I want. There are some things I know I want or at least want to try but they are all a no for her. Roll play, adding a 3rd person (male or female), anal play, oral (for me to completion or her in general). I’d try other positions but I don’t really think that does much for me and some I’ve asked for she doesn’t like. I’m just struggling for options to try new things which I desperately want.
Do you have any suggestions for things we could try or how I can help make any of those more appealing?
TL;DR How can I try new things sexually with a GF that is very vanilla or how can I find what I’m into?
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If it were to continue like this for the rest of your life, would you be satisfied sexually? That’s what it really comes down to.
If everything you suggest is a no for her, then I’d suggest having a serious conversation about the fact that you are not fulfilled, and that you worry about your future together. It may be that you are incompatible sexually, and it’s better to figure that out now, rather than later.