I (F26) am starting to just feel bored with sex. Me and my partner (M25) have had the best sex life ever up till now. I need tips for keeping it spicy!! I feel like when I was on antidepressants and my sex drive just died, but I’m not!

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  3. There’s a lot of small things both can do to change things up. Like moaning in his ear while giving him a handjob or caressing her the right way before/during/after an orgasm (if I run my fingers over my wife’s body after she came she acts like I have a current running through them). If you’re looking for more:

    Be confident – like a porn star. Exaggerate how perfect the other one is for you (you’re so big, your tits are perfect..)

    Try new positions. If you like being on top you could go for Amazon / reverse missionary. If you like him being on top try prone boning.

    Get spontaneous, blow him when he least expects it.

    Get help. Buy sex toys, cuffs or a blindfold.

    Get kinky. Go to a site like mojoupgrade or bdsmtest to explore desires.

    Challenge yourself. There are adult games where each partner draws a challenge to act out maybe try Etsy for those.

    I’ve got quite a few ideas I’d still like to try with my wife of 10 years and I don’t feel like things are getting old.. only we do.

    Just a few things on my bucket list:

    Oral while the other is occupied (phone call / work / porn or gone wild audio)

    Facefuck your partner

    Sit on his face and use a mastorbator on him / blow him while riding a dildo

    Things we tried to spice things up:

    See how often or how hard you can make your partner cum in one day / one session

    Try denial / edging

    Anal (wasn’t for us but others swear by it)

    Deep-throat / C-Spot stimulation

    Using a dildo / vibrator

    Blow him after you came, eat you out after he did
    Cuffs / blindfolds / light bondage

    Dirty talk

    Also: pace yourselves at some point the well will run dry no matter how much you experiment with

  4. Surprise him. Jump him when he’s not expecting it in a place that he’s not used to. (Kitchen table, outside, etc).

  5. Sex outdoors is fun. In the back of your mind you might wonder did the neighbors see us last night? That is the fun.

    A can of whip cream and cherries is fun.

    Lick each other from head to toe. It is very stimulating after a shower. And if each is comfortable it can include ALL of the body.

    We have been together now for 41 years. It is still fun!!

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