Is it creepy to follow someone on instagram you had a brief interaction with?

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1. It is if you’re ugly

2. “Briefly” is the key word here – did you talk for 2 mins or an hour?

   Did the other person explicitly say, “Yeah, sure, let’s keep in touch,” and it *wasn’t* one of those empty “let’s-meet-for-coffee” promises?

   If yes, then shoot your shot, my dude.

   “Hey! Glad I found you, I hope you don’t mind me adding you. I had a great time talking the other day, and I hope we can catch up again soon. Have a great day!”

   **Then leave it alone and ignore it. The other person does not owe you an answer, even if they read it.**

   But in general, the who-follows-who game is toxic, so don’t waste your time worrying about it.