Grew up in a rough area maybe that’s why but I have a hard time being really nice in public, saying thank you etc cuz I think it comes off as weak or people are going to take advantage of me/look down on me and I know it’s wrong. Anyone else deal with that? Always dealt with that when trying to meet woman, don’t want to come off as the “too nice guy” and interacting with people in public. I think it’s stiffeling me with social interactions. I should probably just be myself and nice when I want, just a hard thing to get past.