I make this mistake of giving people another chance. People that I know are psychos, that aren’t reliable, that are very tought to communicate with.
I end up breaking contact with them. But after a certain period of time, I forget all the bad feelings they caused me, and I give them another chance. And rinse and repeat.
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remind yourself that youre better off finding someone else when youre feeling lonely and tempted to reconnect
Go to therapy and learn why you have poor boundaries and why you’re attracted to those people in the first place
Making mistakes is part of life. In fact you aren’t ever going to stop. Just learn from them and be a good person. Not much else you can do