I am 25M and only had one short relationship so far with a girl I wasn’t really attracted to but decided to give her a chance to see where it goes. In the end we weren’t a good match and it didn’t end well. We didn’t have sex so I am basically still a virgin.

My friends describe me as kind, approachable, funny and a good listener. I also have a decent, well respected job in healthcare. So I think in general I have my shit together and I am a likable person with a decent amount of friends even if I am a bit quiet.

I think my real downside is my looks. I am balding, not that tall, have a very plain face and can’t grow a beard. I am also skinny which can be fixed and I plan on starting going to the gym. In general I just don’t think women find me sexually attractive. Maybe it’s just the combination of my not so good looks and my personality giving friend vibes or not being interesting.

Whatever it is there is something wrong with me and it frustrates me a lot because I feel like my carefree young years are running out and I will never experience a passionate relationship where we are both really attracted to each other. Casual sex sounds even harder to achieve. I want to have a family at some point but I also want to have some fun experiences and memories. In the end I just want to experience what every other normal guy experiences.

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  1. Dude, I feel you. Dating can be tough, especially when it feels like you’re not getting the attention you want. But let me tell you this: your looks may not determine everything. Just because you may not fit traditional beauty standards doesn’t mean you’re doomed. Focus on embracing what you do have going for you – your kindness, humor, and attentiveness. Keep working on yourself, both physically and mentally. Hit the gym, improve your confidence, and keep putting yourself out there. It might take time, but believe me, there’s hope for everyone. You deserve a passionate relationship and fun experiences just like anyone else. Don’t forget to enjoy the journey too!

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