Men and women: if you were to put the moves on someone of the opposite sex, what would you do?

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1. All the things.

2. Overshare, get awkward, then flee

3. This is homophobic.

4. just make conversation and try to be interesting and interested

5. Hey, (I or you) did (good thing that’s happened in our lives)! Let’s celebrate with dinner together!

6. A long intricate process that probably would take 1000 pages to explain

7. I’d laugh at everything they say (yes I’m that basic)

   And I’d want them to invite me on a date m, I guess?

8. Probably the easiest way I ever met girls was just going to house parties in college. I’d walk up to a group I didn’t know (usually girls would stand around in clusters) and I’d just say “Hi I’m ___. Nice to meet you (: Who do you know here?”

   And I’d make an effort to give *all* of them equal attention and make genuine conversation, not just the one I thought was cute. That’s a rookie mistake I see so many guys make and frankly it turns off the whole group to you. Plus, I’ve often had it happen where the girl who initially caught my attention had a personality I didn’t jive with and their friend was way cooler and I went home with them instead.

   Once I’d kinda figured out who I wanted to make a move on (and I was getting good signals) I’d just stand close to them, and make good eye contact, or lean into their ear to talk if the party was loud. And of course after laughing at something they said, just randomly whip out my phone and say “you should give me your number (:”. Never had someone say no.