So I(23F) met a guy(25M) a few days ago and then he messaged me pretty non-stop for two days and then asked me out. We went out for drinks for 5 hours, where he talked mostly about himself and didn’t care to ask many questions about me other than the basic “tell me about yourself?” After this we walked home and he then said that the next date would be a therapy session for me(this was a joke) and he mentioned he would be available later in the week. I messaged him the day after telling him I had a nice time and would like to follow up on the second date. He said he enjoyed the date too and that he wasn’t “leaving me hanging”, he was just very busy with work as it is extremely hectic. However it has been since a full day and a half since this last interaction. A few questions:
1. Is it a bad sign this guy is only talking about himself on the date? Or is it just nerves?
2. Am I being ghosted? In my opinion it is not that hard to shoot a simple text asking how someone is.
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Why would you want a second date with someone like that? You want to hear more about someone’s life who doesn’t give a shit about getting to know you?