My (M19) girlfriend (F19) doesn’t feel anything or feels very little sensation when I finger her with all the classic methods (“come here” motion, etc.) and I’ve tried it on every spot inside. She says that she feels very little to no sensation even if she fingers herself, although she hasn’t been doing that for long, since I’m her first sexual partner and her hymen was hard to “pop”. According to her she felt the most when we were in the shower and both standing but it seems like I can’t achieve that when laying in bed. Any tips or experiences would be greatly appreciated :))
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Maybe it’s just not that stimulating for her, or maybe it’s a mental block. As long as you guys are willing to find ways to please each other, there are many things to discover together.
I wouldn’t focus on what isn’t working, but rather on things that work and get really good at those.
If Im not horny enough theres little sensation in my vagina. The hornier the more the spots awaken Ild say.
As one man to another STOP. Especially stop when you say things like “classic methods”.
Some truth bombs:
First : All women are different . what works on some won’t work on others.
Second: 60 to 70 % of women can not cum from vaginal stimulation alone. This is because there are almost no nerves inside the vagina. Almost all the vaginas nerves are in the entryway and the lips .
Third: Most women can cum from clitoral stimulation. The clitoris as opposed to the vagina has the most nerve endings.
So my friend. Go to google and research “ AnAtomy of the vagina”. See where the clitoris is.
It’s this little bump covered by a hood just above the vagina while still covered by the lips.
If your going to get an orgasm it’s through stimulation of the clitoris then when you really got her going with that you can add “fingering”.
The clitoris needs to be treated gently. Like never ever touch it dry . Always with wet fingers or your tongue.
Not every woman likes fingering, many women don’t feel anything with that ‘come hither’ thing.
The clitoris is the center of female sexual response, so, become a virtuoso of oral and clit stim. That’s the key.