Going to keep this short. A good friend and I recently realized we have very strong feelings for one another. We have the type of chemistry and connection you read about, watch romcoms about – and one day, over a beautiful sunrise on my rooftop – it just hit us. What followed was one of the most emotionally intense romances I’ve ever had: we had known each other for so long, so falling in love, hard, didn’t seem like it happened fast at all. We made plans for travel, even talked about the rest of our lives. We both felt we had found ‘our person’ in one another. We kept the physical out of it (as HARD as that was) for a few weeks until we gave in. It wasn’t perfect but it felt so good. I’m a thick girl and he’s a skinny, short guy. I did feel ‘big’ next to him but figured it would be something that’d pass with growing emotions.
A few weeks later, his demeanor changed and he seemed distant. I asked him what was up and after some pushing he said despite the crazy chemistry and connection – he wasn’t feeling physically attracted.
I’ve never had a man complain about my body or reject me based on it. Instead, I’ve had the opposite experience.
I’m genuinely at a loss. I walked away from it, but am devastated and don’t understand.
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Hello! He had a changed of heart, maybe it was physical attraction maybe it was not. The bottom line is that he wanted out, better now than later.
Plenty of other men find your physique attractive so why worry about the one that does not ?