I feel like I’ve encountered this multiple times with different people. Why make a lame excuse? Why say yes and then back out last minute? Then its ambiguous and just leads to confusion on my part so I ask again. Just say you’re not interested. You don’t even have to justify it. Do people think they’re being polite? Its not. Its annoying and rude. Tell me if you want to go or not its that simple holy shit some people are frustrating. Why is this such a hard concept to grasp?
If you do this please stop.