My husband and I have been together for a while, and for a while we have explored exhibitionism.
Recently, we had the realization that he likes to watch me have sex and enjoy myself, than to have sex with me. I don’t find this a problem, but wanted to know the downsides of continuing down this path and what it means for our life.
Any thoughts?
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The potential downside is you’ll have a lot of video of yourself (depending on how you feel about that). Also, he could have cuck tendencies and eventually want to see you with others while he films. That’s up to you to decide if that’s a positive or negative in your book.
What do you think will be the potential downsides to this ?
The fact that they are downsides will depend completely on you. Would you like a sexless, or near sexless, relationship but with a lot of mutual masterbation? Would you like to have sex with other people and have your husband watching? None of these are sure and if you like them I don’t think they are downsides, however if you don’t like them you should set some limits or talk about the long term with your husband