I think I’m catching feelings again but I think he’s just horny and wants to get laid again or simply my friend
So last year I met a guy at the gym who came and tried helping me. I didn’t think much of it since he was just genuinely helping me with my form.
It was all small talk like we just say hi and “how are you?” Little by little I started developing feelings. I decided to shoot my shot and asked for his number. He said he got into a car crash and was currently driving so I found the right timing to ask for his number and give him rides.
From there, he was the one texting me like once a week to say hi and wish my a wonderful week …etc. he would throw subtle signs that he liked me so I shoot my shot and told him I liked him. He said he felt the same.
The day when I saw him he carried me in the gym parking lot and kissed my cheek. Lol
I went to his house to hang out and initiated a French kiss. Yes I feel like I initiated everything. I sat on top of him and started making out. Lmao 2 weeks in we started having sex. We sorta dated from January through April. Then we kinda got into an argument and stopped talking for like a month.
Since then he’s slowly texting me every week and just recently he’s been calling me twice a week.
Keep in mind I haven’t seen him because I have been avoiding the gym. Lmao. I still like him and want to avoid getting attached.
So last night we were face timing for 2 hours. He went grocery shopping and was asking me stuff like what should I make for dinner. He asked me if he should cut his hair. I threw in subtle signs that I find him attractive with shorter hair. I told him “remember when I confessed I liked you” he smiled and kinda got nervous.
My dad injured his arm and he asked me if he can stop by house later to drop off the peppermint spray… I said yes. He came and for the first time in 2 months I had seen him again and my heart felt so good!!😭😭 he hugged me 3 times. The first hug he hugged me sooooo right for like a whole minute. He hugged me again then before he left he hugged me again
I’m not sure if I’m tripping. He called me again this morning to see if the spray worked for my dad. I really like him but I don’t want to ruin this friendship lol. Should I just continue avoiding him at the gym??