I am a 67 year old male who separated from his wife of 47 years two years ago.
I live in an apartment for seniors and about a month ago, I was asked to help a woman with her phone, she is 74 and black (I am white)
She admitted she had been watching porn and that pop ups kept coming up on it.
I spent some time fixing it when she asked me to look into something else, I had been working so I said I would have a shower and come back.
When I returned she was in the shower and then came out with just a towel on, needless to say we jumped into bed. WE mumbled some things about not telling anyone etc.
The sex was amazing, I never knew a woman could get so wet and horny, we did this again and again over a period of a month.She has since told me that she loves me, but I don’t really feel the same.
I have no experience in these types of situations, as mentioned I was married for 47 years, I went from living at home to directly living with her.I am unsure on how to proceed as I would like to keep her as a friend, with or without benefits but don’t want it to go much further
Advice please
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Do you feel like it could grow into love? If not, then it would be best to be honest and tell her exactly what you’ve said here. That the sex is amazing and the friendship is valued, but that you are not interested in a romantic relationship.
Tough situation. I would tell her that I was a one woman man for almost 50 years and just don’t have it in me to love someone again. I would add that I liked her and enjoyed her company in and out of bed.