i f18 wants dirty talk tips

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1. Honestly the only way I got better was by just saying things while I was masturbating alone, which I know might sound a little cringy but that’s what got me better. It let me hear what I sounded good saying and what I didn’t

2. f you’re a complete beginner, you’ll want to start small and gauge how you feel and your partner reacts, especially if it’s something you’ve never spoken about before. An easy way to do that? Simply describe what you’re doing or want to do with them.

   This is a failsafe phone sex technique (when describing what you’re doing is key), but it can also be hot to introduce while you’re already in the act IRL.

   Talking dirty is a learned skill. When in doubt, revert back to the above: describe what you are doing, what you want to do to your partner

   Work your way up the rauchiness totem pole. In general, I like to think of the sex words we use as falling into one of four categories: romantic terms (e.g. “making love”), clinical terms (e.g. “having sex,” “having in sexual intercourse”), slang terms (e.g. “doing it”), and raunchy terms (e.g. “f-cking”). If you’re new to dirty talk, you may want to start with more subdued words before progressing to the more graphic. Sometimes people think that they have to go all the way in order to succeed at dirty talk, but dirty talk is a continuum and all levels of vulgarity work.

   Of course to learn anything about sex “from the best” you can always check pinned content on my profile

3. the classic dirty talk tip- Say what you want to do, say what you’re doing, say what you just did.

4. Talk about all things you want to do to him once you see him and what you want him to do to you and say the it like don’t say books say tips don’t say dick say cock don’t say vigina say cunt things like that