The condom fits me well and it’s not tight, it’s just perfect. The Mysize 67 felt a tiny bit tight and the 69 feels very good.
She is my new partner 23f, and this is the first time we had sex together.
She had to push me away because she told me it’s painful, maybe that’s what tricked my brain and made me lose erection? I made sure she was wet and I also used lube. She was never dry during intercourse.
The scary part is that she felt loose I didn’t feel friction 😠but I was painful to her?
I was super hard during oral but once I put the condom on and positioned ourselves for max penetration I started to feel myself losing blood pressure down there and I had to choke my penis to keep it hard enough to penetrate，like a water balloon. It felt awful but she was very kind afterwards. Well try again later tonight. She didn’t say anything about that. I also finished her off with oral to save the situation.
I’m concerned about what happened and I haven’t had sex for almost 3 years.
Edit: thanks everyone in advance for your help.
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Classic performance anxiety coupled with the fact that she expressed she was feeling pain. You don’t have anything physically wrong with you most likely. Sex is subject to all the same stresses and anxiety that everything else is in your life. It’s not some magical primal state where you’re rock hard the whole time and busting nuts left and right regardless of how long it’s been since you last had sex. Relax, take a deep breath, take things slow, do other things besides penetration, be in the moment.
Get a condom that fits