My [F25] boyfriend [M25] has been very honest with from the start about his maturation addiction (masturbation not porn). He mentioned he specifically stays away from porn because it’s too ‘hardcore’. He uses bikini pictures or whatever else is available. Now he can only cum in two positions. The first is riding him and even then he doesn’t get there until I’m tired and drying up? The second is prone bone also after some time and he can cum dry or not (guessing it’s the tightness).
I don’t genuinely mind having sex for so long my major issue is he goes soft half way through the sex and isn’t fully hard for the rest of the show. This is actually painful for me because his penis is flimsy and gripy when it’s soft. It’s also really hard to insert his soft dick when it slides out. He is aware and always apologises about it.
I’m not really sure what to do about this. I want to continue having sex with him but I also don’t want to go through the pain. He’s already having a rough time keeping his dick hard, I’d feel terrible saying ‘hey can you stop, your dick is too soft’ midway. Is there a solution or some sort of toy for this? Advice maybe?
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Reducing masturbation and not using any visual stimuli (that includes bikini pics) will certainly help
Man needs to practice self discipline if he knows his addiction is impacting his sexual relationship
Others here have already mentioned the obvious solution of him cutting back on the masterbation. But I want to add that you shouldn’t ever feel bad about stopping sex at any point for any reason. Especially if you’re in pain. That’s absolutely a good reason to stop and will always always always be more important than your partners feelings. If you need to talk about his feelings after that’s fine but the main thing is to not subject yourself to painful sex.
Also maybe consider adding some lube if dryness is still an issue. If you’re in a pinch spit works too.
Hmm, maybe tell him to stop masturbating?