My gf (F25) eventually left me (M28) because I wanted to be more social. Now she has a family problem and she is angry at me.

So my gf (F25) hasn’t spoken to me in the last 2 days because after one year of relationship I told her that it’s ok to have some time separately with friends.

The last year, I (M25) was clinging to my gf daily and she was doing the same. The love was so strong but after some time we kinda fight a lot more often because our every day life was the same. Same schedule, same everything.

Im not saying it was bad and I was enjoying it, but after some time I missed my old me in a way that I wanted to hung out with some friends of mine, talk about football, even attending some matches.

In the span of our relationship when she feels bad she kinda wants to make feel the same so I’ll have some empathy with her. I understand that as well even though I don’t agree.

Adding to my story, she has broken up with me many times so far and I’m the one who’s trying to be back together constantly. When I do something bad, instead of talking to me about it, she is reacting to it in a way that I get hurt.

For example (because we met on ig and I ,some times, I’m scared she might meet a new guy) she starts sharing some photos on her story with bikinis, she is following a tons of random guys and even changing our shared profile pic to one of her one with bikini. Just for punishment for me acting “bad”.

Bad in a manner of hanging out with friends of mine (not even drinking) and sharing some moments with other guys than her (btw she has deleted all of her friends for no reason at all).

In the last couple of weeks we learnt that her father is sick. Cancer sick. I’m trying to support her, to love her even more, be around her all the time and so.

So, the last week she left and went to her vacation place which is an hour from the home place but I started working so it’s really hard for me to visit her (working in the harbour, 24hrs shift and so) but I’ve visited her already twice this week.

Last two days I kinda met with some friends of mine, went to the gym a little more and she got angry at me because “she needs me and I live my life without her”.

She is coming back next week btw

The final act is when I attend a football game that she insisted of me not going due to some violence issues that we have in our country (Greece).

I assured her everything will be alright (which it was actually) and she ended up getting angry at me going, doing the Instagram thing and telling me to leave her. Ever since that we haven’t spoken at all.

So guys, what do I do?? I love her and I don’t want to leave her in this difficult situation but I cannot be treated like that all the time. It makes me extra cautious and anxious because I don’t her to leave me.