I am certainly not one to wear my heart on my sleeve. In fact, at 35 years old I often wondered if I’d ever meet someone or be in a relationship with someone who felt like my person. The only benefit to my past, failed relationships is that it showed me what I don’t and DO want in a man.
This all being said, I met someone on a dating site 3 weeks ago and he has brought something out in me that I never quite experienced. He makes me believe that love, happiness and monogamy can actually exist. We both have hit it off extremely well. So much so that we both are blown away in finding each other. Besides having fundamental things in common we have similar lifestyles and morals and values and seem to connect physically, mentally, spiritually and emotionally. He encourages transparency which is great because that is important to me too as both of us got out of long term relationships earlier this year.
My qualm is that I fear we are moving too fast. Maybe like it is too good to be true. Like pinch me. I wanted to find someone that checked most boxes but not every single one and then some. He is beautiful to me, inside and out. I crazily and insanely, feel like I love him and want to be with him…forever.
It sounds so cheesy. But in my mid thirties I really know what I want and finally have found it.
tl;dr: Am I just in over my head or is it possible to meet someone and know that you never want to not have them in your life?
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Someone so perfect and he couldn’t keep his last girl? Could be a pretender until the honeymoon stage is over.