I dont like it when he touches my clit or any other stimulation except for hard pounding his dick inside me.

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1. I had a FWB like this though on her better days when she was warmed up with foreplay she could cum within a few minutes of me being inside of her.

   Try and get him to finger you for a while before sex – alternatively find other ways to increase your arousal ahead of time (kissing, playing with your boobs, dirty talk, whatever else floats your boat)

2. I’m also not too big on direct stimulation. But you can try having him be off the side so it’s not direct and overstimulating.

   I’m also not too big on direct stimulation. But you can try having him be off the side so it’s not direct and overstimulating.

   Maybe look into some toys? You could have him lube it up and thrust it pretty hard. If you want there are also sex machines IF that’s something you want to do then his arm isn’t getting tired.

   You can also try exploring with other senses. I personally love auditory stimulation so sex sounds (porn or from a partner) talking dirty etc. You can try watching porn together. There are touch sensory tools such as feathers and massage rollers. Food play is great for taste.

   It’s a lot of experimenting and seeing if anything else arouses you. IF you are not comfortable then don’t do it. But if any of these sound fun then look into them a bit more and talk with your partner

3. Perfectly fine. Every clit is different and some are sensitive and overstimulated at the slightest touch.

4. Honestly I thought I was like this, then I put all my insecurities aside let myself just breathe and relax and let my bf give me oral and oh my god best orgasm ever, that’s my advice I know you feel like you can’t orgasm from your clit but I was there too, I think if you’re really horny and just relax and let him give you passionate head, you’ll get off or at least that’s what happened to me !

5. You MUST figure out how to orgasm on your own before you can orgasm with a partner.

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   Try indirect clit stimulation instead of going straight at it.

6. I’m highly sensitive but have never had this problem so not too much advice I can give you unfortunately, other than maybe try riding him? If you alternate between him and you doing the work you might be able to get to orgasm. You could also try using a vibrator just in the vacinity of your clit but not actually touching it during intercourse to get to an orgasm. But I would also say you should try to get yourself to orgasm in your own a few times so you know exactly what you like and can help direct him better.

7. Welcome to Reddit!

   We got creeps in all shapes and sizes!

8. No one can pound your pussy 15-20 minutes, so far.

9. My partner only comes properly from g-spot stimulation, clitoral stimulation is either, too sensitive or not at all, so maybe look at using fingers or toys to try it

10. you should try more interesting poses from kamasutra

11. As you mentioned you liked to get insertion rather than clit stimulation.
    But the thing is you have to start foreplay first to get the right mood + environment
    My advice would be to try stimulating clit + fingering?
    Or maybe you can add scratching nipples initially.
    But clit stimulation is on the only way to get high umm does much better with fingering

12. I’m kinda similar actually, penetration is #1 for me and yet I will never orgasm from that alone. I suppose people just come in different types like that. Only thing I can really suggest is trying shit out on your own without him, and also being open minded to new things in general.

13. If the poor guy can’t go the distance. Maybe you could consider, getting him a tag team partner. Vigorous exercise could help. I used to jog long distances almost everyday. And I could pound her long hard, and fast for one, or two hours if she let me. Usual thirty five, forty minutes was good for her. But it takes work to reach that stamina.

14. I highly recommend toys. Jump on ali express and have some fun ordering some together. They are cheap and just as good as what you pay ten times the price for locally. Your partner will likely be on board and enthusiastic because if he is a decent guy he will be excited at the prospect of finally getting you to orgasm.

    A bullet vibrator could be all you need. They are like $5! But remember there are different toys out there that work in different ways. Some vibrators are sharp and fast, some are low and rumbly and some don’t even vibrate but rather suck using a vacuum seal to created pulses on your clit. The Womanizer has very low settings so you can take it slow and not overstimulate yourself. You might like the sucking pulsing toys if you are into the pounding feeling of getting fucked.

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    Good luck! 🙂

15. Vibrating. Cock. Ring. Extends perfermance time AYAND gives good stimulation. Like Zappa once said “Tryyy it, it’s a wayy of liiife!”

16. I think solving the “too intense” stimulation may help with PIV and maybe orgasming quicker. As others have suggested, indirect touching/licking by him on the sides or the hood of the clit may help. Direct him with your noise and voice until you feel a spot that is just right for you. Even if you don’t orgasm from it, you may get closer before PIV.

    Talk to him about this and experiment with himself and yourself, good luck.

17. If you touch yourself or use a vibe during the pounding, believe me that maybe the ticket. You need to be comfortable also with yourself and know what makes you come when it comes to touching your clit, maybe in doing that you would be able to express to him how to touch you and turn you on, and make him see your ‘O’ face. Practice makes perfect, and that goes both ways.