Have had some sexual trauma in the past and with past boyfriends sex had always been very bland and vanilla, a lot of it just me not being into it very much on my end as well. Or guys just not wanting to put much effort in it. For the first time I’ve had a consistent fwb but we had a falling out and I hadn’t been with him in months. A couple days ago I thought fuck it invited him over and he showed. It was the most intense and passionate sex I’ve ever had. Sex with him had always been good but this time it was different. I decided I didn’t care what he thought of me and went all out for the first time. It was so rough, I let myself go and there was dirty talk on both ends and we ended up going for three rounds. Instead of feeling like oh I’m doing this because it’s expected of me it felt like we were just releasing all of our emotions and just fighting for control the whole time. It was amazing. For the first time at 26 I feel like I’ve actually explored my sexuality for the first time and it feels weird but liberating.

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  2. Congratulations. It’s not uncommon for it to take a few years to really find yourself with sex and discover what works for you. Keep experimenting, try new things. Don’t worry what anyone else thinks, I guarantee they have their own little peccadilloes.

  3. I’ve always found the best sex is raw and animalistic. When you channel all of your desire and emotion into it, it’s usually fantastic 😊

  4. I’m absolutely delighted for you. Isn’t it wonderful to experience something so wonderful and unexpected. You now know what you can look forward to

  5. You do you sex is nothing to be ashamed or to worry about people thoughts of you it’s for your pleasure

  6. Congratulations 👏 Sounds like you’ve surrendered yourself, to the experience, & to him. Surrendering is the magic that makes it hot for the both of you. Being present.

  9. I unfortunately don’t know what sex is. Never done that. I don’t have a “dog in the fight”. 😪😪

  11. Remember, this was all you. You can help make sex better, no matter who you are with.

  12. That’s so awesome!! I’m so happy that you found this freedom to explore your sexuality in your twenties! 😁

    I didn’t even begin to explore my sexuality until I hit my 40s (44f). I’m finally comfortable with myself at this age, especially with the guy I am currently seeing (a lot more than FWB, but not exactly a defined LTR). He puts me at ease and makes me feel confident and sexy. He even gets me to try new things…I’m a pretty willing participant though, LoL!

    I’m glad you didn’t wait as long as I did. I’m so thrilled that you found someone to be yourself with and can feel comfortable exploring your sexuality! ❤️

  16. The whole Fwb I don’t really get. If yours constantly fucking someone and you both enjoy being together isn’t that just a relationship?

  17. It’s so interesting to me how so many women hold back sexually when it’s someone they see a future with like a boyfriend or husband but go all out when it’s a one night stand or fwb. I think a lot of relationships would be better if women brought that same energy in to their long-term relationships. So many men post here complaining about finding out their wife or gf did things with ONS that they won’t do for them and it messes up the relationship.

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