What does your partner need to do more of in the bedroom?

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1. Massages and back scratches

2. Pick up his clothes. He always leaves them in random places around the room.

3. Putting socks in the hamper.

4. Exist

5. Hoover

6. *Need*? Nothing. I’d love some more bath massages though. Yes, a massage while I soak in the bath. It’s divine

7. Clean it and pick up his crap.

8. Take dicktation.

9. Stop sweating. xD

   I’m on the spectrum. Because of this, I have severe texture sensitivities, and certain “issues” with visuals that activate the monkey brain, causing me to have nausea or a fear response. This kicks in with body fluids such as urine, sweat, spit, poo, so on and so forth. It makes me want to crawl out of my own skin.

   I hate feeling sweat fall onto my bare skin, it makes me want to crawl out of my flesh. I hate seeing sweat running down my SO’s face, it makes me want to throw up. T-T I hate feeling this way, as there is nothing neither of us can do about it other than just not have sex, and I would rather just live in silent misery than risk losing my soulmate over something as insignificant as sex.

10. Sleep, like fr my gf doesn’t get a healthy amount of sleep