Like how does one have the power to walk away from something that is not working for them? I feel like I always end up trying to make things work even when I don’t really want to or even when I know I am miserable. I have taken therapy to work on my self confidence and steer clear of red flags. I am smart, hot, living my best life in nyc, funny, I have a good social support, I cook really well, I read and I put in a lot of effort in my relationships. Even then, I end with guys who treat me horribly or get cold feet when it is time to commit. And for some reason, I always end up begging for something I don’t even think aligns with my values or goals. How do I get to the point where I am absolutely delulu and put myself first. Because I feel like that would solve 90% of my problems. Any recommendations?
Tldr: tips on boosting self confidence and putting myself first.