I am 27 years old male and I’ve had several relationships in the past, but I’ve met all my ex girlfriends at school / at university.
For the last couple of years I focused mostly on career and now that I work (remotely) I don’t meet new people at all. I also have (had?) 2 – 3 good friends but they all have girlfriends now and they don’t have much time to meet with me anymore.
I consider myself decent looking, I’m 183cm (6ft) tall and I workout at the gym frequently.
Recently I started feeling very lonely. I work remotely from 8am to 4pm, then (every other day) i hit the gym, then I make and eat dinner and after that it’s around 7 – 8pm so I just read or watch something (just chill at home).
I’ve tried Tinder but I had no success (only \~8 matches in a month and very plain and uninterested responses). So online dating won’t work I guess.
So, how and where can I meet a woman for the purpose of dating? Please help me.
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You could find meetups for hobbies you have like maybe hiking, karaoke, motorcycle riding, etc…to expand your social circle. Maybe pick up a new hobby or two. Join a volunteer or service organization. Maybe take a dance or cooking class(es). Maybe join a book club.
The key is to expand your social circle. You will not only meet women, but people in general with similar interests. Should you befriend anyone then you will meet friends of friends, which can lead to fruitful relationships.
Edit: Online dating is like fishing in a sewer. I wouldn’t waste your time.