Have you ever gotten messages from someone you ghosted long ago? Did you ever reply back or just ignore it again? What are your thoughts about those people who reached out again?

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1. Yeah.

   An ex girlfriend who was using me as a rebound relationship. I got angry over feeling like I was being used and felt disrespected and stopped all contact with her.

   Her friends got shitty with me about it and I found out that she magically wanted to be with me more than any other guy after I so happened to stop talking to her

   Months later I got a text message from her after she obviously got a new phone number saying “Hi :)” and when I asked who it was messaging me. She said her name and I immediately blocked the number.

   Haven’t talked to her since.

   I ain’t gonna stand being used by anyone. She didn’t respect me. I felt used.

2. Ignored it again especially if it’s someone tryna get me back or something

3. Remembering that all the bullshit they put me through far outweighed the good stuff, making it easier to ignore.

4. *”Have you ever gotten messages from someone you ghosted long ago?”*

   No.

5. Yeah. I usually reply and see if I can get them to come over for sex or maybe drinks and then have sex. Most of the time the women who ghosted aren’t worth trying to get a relationship with but I don’t say no to sex.

6. If you ghosted them, you deserve no reply. If you get that “???” then she is thinking of you but she hates you too.

   If it is more than 8 months ago, boy better check she isn’t having your babies.

7. Had a female friend reach out after a huge disagreement. I can’t even remember what it was about or who stopped talking to who first.

   I remember it was random asf. She reached out to apologize but before responding I did a little digging. Found out she’s been going through so many personal issues, lost many friends, etc etc. I was terrified she was gonna hurt herself and she was really saying “sorry AND goodbye”

   I instantly felt like an asshole. This was 2-3 years after we stopped talking and I remember sending her a paragraph of apologies cuz I realized I might’ve been in the wrong but I definitely failed friend. She was thankfully okay.