i’m a 24F, and it’s been this way since i first started having sex. Granted i didn’t orgasm with half the people i’ve been with, but recently my partner has been able to, and it makes me not want to have sex with him.
I can’t even explain the feeling either, it’s like i reach the peak, and immediately i get this heavy feeling in my chest, and my entire body just closes down. It’s not the whole dopamine/come down, it’s before i even reach the peak of my orgasm.
I never feel disgusted by my body, but holy shit even thinking about orgasming gives my body a reaction. :/
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Sounds like a result of earlier attitudes or family teaching. The old “good girls don’t have sex” idea. It is also possible there is a religious element involved as many conservative religions, not just Christianity make it easy to perceive sexual pleasure as sin. If you cannot self diagnose I suggest you consider therapy.
What are your general views on sex, what are the general views of your parents and community? Sounds like you have an unhealthy attitude towards sex, and it could stem from your environment. A lot of good advice online, but also therapy. Maybe someone who specializes in sex. Unless you’re a little Ace and don’t actually like sex.