My LDR bf (27/M) is having some problems on his own that’s taking effect in our relationship. He seems very stressed right now financially, at work, and with all the things around his apartment and dog. He cannot take control with the situation right now and he seems very unhappy. Since we are LDR, it’s hard to see him like this and we decided to give each other space for a while.. also we just got back together last week from a big fight.
I’ve never in a relationship where we need to take a break/space with the relationship. I am really confused this time. Is it possible to get us back together or it’s better to just move on from this? Btw, we are nevermets but hopefully meeting each other by end of this year. 🥲
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He met someone else and wants to explore that without the guilt of infidelity.
In my experience, a healthy relationship doesn’t require taking a break. The people I’ve seen taking a break from their relationship always end up breaking up later. If you’re going to try a break, I’d recommend setting some ‘relationship break rules’, such as not seeing other people, expected levels of contact, and so on.