It doesn’t have to be 100% of kinks, I just want to know how I can find a woman with some of the same kinks as me, I’ve never been with a woman before so I wouldn’t know, but I don’t want to cross any boundaries, but I also don’t want it to be awkward at all

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  1. ask them, start with the tamest and work way up if shes into it… or am I finding it too obvious?

  2. There are online communities to find people with same fetishes. Other than that, learn to talk about sex without it being awkward – by talking about sex.

  3. There are online and in person communities that you can join. It’s also about communication and finding out what the other person likes/dislikes. It is worth remembering to take it slowly though.

  4. Ask what her kinks are (once you’re already talking to each other and in a situation where you may be intimate- don’t just randomly ask people this if they’re strangers). If you go on an app like Feeld, which is for meeting kinky people, you’ll see people being upfront right away.

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