Hey all, got with a newer girl recently. We’re still trying to figure each other out more in the bedroom at this point. She prefers the submissive side of the coin, I prefer dominance. We mesh well in that way but I’m looking for advice on how to up my game here.
Doggystyle has always struck me as the most potential for domination. Easy to spank, pull hair, pin her arms, yadda yadda. All of which she is perfectly happy with.
It just seems a bit.. boring? I’m looking to figure out more positions or ideas that work with this outside of doggy so I have more options with her. How can I turn more vanilla positions like missionary into a fun submissive experience for her?
She’s a bit of a bigger girl but nothing too crazy. She isn’t a huge fan of positions that have her on top, and says thats due to a combination of it making her feel more in control, and also a bit more self conscious. Hopefully this helps narrow down some ideas.
Any advice?
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Missionary is totally easy to do from a dominance point of view. Holding legs/thighs wide, staring down, etc.
Put her legs on your shoulders! Ideally you and the bed are optimal height for you to be standing but other furniture can work to find ideal height. This lets you get really deep penetration and total control. Plus it can be made better by throwing her legs over one shoulder, tightening her legs or criss-crossing her legs to make it even tighter and feels really good for both.
Legs on shoulders done right is a way to snatch a woman’s soul