How did you stop being consumed with burning hatred for the “other woman”?

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1. She’s not in a relationship. HE is

2. I don’t understand blaming the woman when it’s the man’s decision to be unfaithful.

3. I never blamed her, I blamed him.

4. I realized that he was playing both of us, stringing both of us along, while he was having a great time and facing little to no consequences.

   Also the fact that his crime was worse than her crime. The betrayal makes cheating worse than knowingly sleeping with someone that’s in a relationship.

   Time, space, and healing also allowed me to see more clearly.