Seems like every person I have given my time of a day to , knows that I’m looking for a relationship and they play the part that they are looking for the same thing in the beginning , but weeks later switches it on me and says they are looking to be in something casual.
Like if you know you aren’t looking for anything long term , why lead someone on.
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There are a few possibilities:
1) You’re going on dates with guys outside of your league. Men will sleep with women they view as below their league but will rarely date them. These men will intentionally lie about their desire to be in a relationship. You can usually avoid them by dating in your own league.
2) The guys originally are open to the idea of being in a relationship with you, but after a few dates you get downgraded from potential partner to potential FWB due to compatability concerns.
3) You have unhealthy taste in men and don’t realise it
4) You’re very unlucky (the chance of this being true decreases the more frequently this occurs).
People are in denial. I think they think this is a nice way of saying the chemistry isn’t there.
It’s hard to take either way, cause it feels like a waste but you have to realize this was always the chance of happening. No biggie , it is a waste but you have to recover to make it less so.