So I (27m) went on a date right at the beginning of the year with someone (27F) I matched with on Tinder. I won’t go into great detail but it was a great date, I realize especially now after going on several others. I was freshly out of a very long relationship tho and realized I needed me time after one date and our texts just fizzled out due to lack of initiative on my part.
I’d love a second chance with this girl, if by some miracle she’s still single. I’ve been on dates with like 5 different people and she still pops into my head. Is it crazy to text her after so long? I was thinking of something light like “that ice cream we bought is still in my freezer, you never helped me finish it!” and just see if I get a response. I don’t have high hopes but is this nuts or should I shoot my shot?
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Roll the dice. But she most likely won’t remember you 8 months is a long time.
Send her the light message you suggested, or just send her a candid message saying you’re sorry things fizzled out but you really want to reconnect. if she felt hurt by you acting uninterested, a sincere message saying you’re still thinking of her could go a long way