Idk if reddit is the best place to ask but who knows. Been out of the dating scene awhile-I’m a man, met a woman online but not a dating site, we have a few mutual friends. we’re coming up on a month of texting daily and 1 3hr phone conversation. She sometimes shuts down and barely talks, but if she’s alone she will chat and share plenty of stuff (complains about her family, work, shared some stuff she told me she was embarrassed about, told me when it was her time of the month, etc) and sometimes send snap videos. I really like her and would like to go on at least a date to figure out if shes into me, im having trouble reading her. I’ve asked her a few times and she’s been busy, I asked about a weeknight this week and got a maybe but her schedule is unpredictable. So the question is how to I ask her out to drinks and get a yes without being annoying? Or a way to keep asking if she’s busy again this week