We met about year ago, started chatting and went out couple of times. Everything went perfectly, we had fun and planned to go out again. I told her that I had feelings towards her and she told the same to me. All of a sudden she starts acting weird and arrogant towards me. Finally one day she told me that she never had any feelings towards me and she just wants to stay friends. I stayed calm but at the same time was surprised after all the things we did/shared together. I thanked her for the honesty and moved on with my life even though I was ‘heart broken’.
6 months later, no contact, I saw her outside with one of her friends and she was very enthusiastic seeing me. We talked a little and went our ways. Again I was surprised by her reaction.
Few weeks ago I saw her again and now she is upset at me for no apparent reason. I removed myself from this situation and was confused again.
I was in a relationship with my previous girlfriend for 7 years. I am very new to this dating world and I am confused. Is such behavior normal? should I remove her from everywhere (social media etc) and avoid contact in the future or should I ask/talk to her about this?
tl;dr : She told me she just wants to stay friends, 9 months later we see again and now she’s mad at me.
2 comments
Mad you didn’t take the bait and peace’s out instead of playing hard to get with her
Some people have trouble being straight forward. Maybe just friends means no contact maybe she’s playing games. Who knows? Why care?