Got a like from a girl. I then swiped right and we matched last week. She didn’t send any message in 48 hours so the match expired. Since I thought we would be perfect match, I tracked down her IG (yes tracked down) and sent her a DM at the risk of looking creepy. She hasn’t responded for a day, but has become my follower. The fact that I didn’t get outright ignored/blocked is giving me mixed signals. How should I engage ?

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  1. Engaging with expired Bumble matches can be tricky. She’s now following you, which is a positive sign. Give it time; she might be busy or cautious. If she responds, be honest about your interest, but respect her pace. Good luck!

  2. how is your instagram game?
    good profile showing ‘value’ and a ‘fun thrilling’ life ?
    got pictures with female validation , comments or them tagged in the pictures?

    do you post reels / stories often?

    if yes to then u should wait, keep acting interesting and engage in bit
    wait for her to show some other signs
    track if possible what posts she liked or watched (if you want to fbi)

    What did you say in the dm?

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